My suggestions..

..in various affairs originate because either:

1- I'm thinking about a hypothetical perfect world scenario
2- Or because I'm looking at the reality of the situation
3- Or I'm looking at the reality of the situation and want to "take" it to the perfect level
4- Or I'm just kidding myself.

I gotto be able to understand what I'm looking at when thinking about suggestions. Clearly if I'm looking at a perfect world far far away from from reality, I'm bound to be off chart.